Posted on January 27, 2009 - by Amanda

Appropriate Dress for Religious Services

By Amy Bruggeman

Appropriate Dress for Religious Services

Nothing strikes fear to the heart quite like the thought of visiting an unfamiliar place of worship. After all, who wants to stand out as the one who doesn’t belong? The first step in avoiding such a scenario is to know how to dress. While we haven’t the space to cover all dress codes, the following guidelines should get you well on your way.

Buddhism

Dress modestly – a dress or skirt that falls below the knee is preferred, though a pantsuit is typically acceptable. Avoid shorts and sleeveless tops.

Christianity

Christianity is a catch-all for denominations that center-around Christ, His death, and resurrection as the sole means of salvation. Since it runs the gauntlet – from Catholic to Pentecostal – dress codes run much the same. While more and more churches of today are allowing more casual attire, others cling to extreme modesty. For instance, very traditional Catholic, Orthodox or Fundamentalist churches expect women to wear dresses or skirts that fall below the knee. Some even require a head covering in the form of a veil or a hat. Other congregations will be comfortable with shorts and tank tops however one will never be out of place in modest, sleeved attire.

Hinduism

Many temples accept casual dress, though shorts, short skirts, and sleeveless blouses are looked down upon. However, some temples do require women to wear saris, the traditional Indian dress.

Islam

Women who enter a mosque must wear loose clothing that covers the entire body – only hands and face may remain visible – and does not adhere to their shape. Clothing must be made of a non-transparent material, and one that does not include a bold design. Women must also wear a head covering. Some mosques may offer scarves for visitors to borrow.

Judaism

In Orthodox synagogues, women are not allowed to wear pants. Also, married women must keep their head and arms covered. Many synagogues keep scarves on hand to lend to visitors. And while Reform sects do not adhere to a specific dress code, modesty remains appreciated.

Final thoughts

Some church names may offer a clue on appropriate dress: for instance, Orthodox or Fundamentalist churches tend to be more traditional – which translates to more modest; Reform churches, on the other hand, typically indicate a more modern approach.

If you’re not sure – and you don’t want to wing it – ask the friend who extended the invitation, or visit or phone the establishment prior to your visit to inquire about proper dress.

Above all, remember this: be it a temple or a converted warehouse, a place of worship is holy ground. Even if the denomination you plan to attend promises to accept you as you are, have a little respect. This is not the time or the place to showcase your panty-bling, sparkly though it may be. Think business casual and in most cases, you’ll be fine.

We at The Complete Woman do not even pretend to be experts on all world religions and we welcome comments from our readers who may have more experience with a particular house of worship.

Coming next week: Appropriate Behavior for Religious Services